It seems to me that there are three types of people in Cleveland: those who love it, those who are ambivalent and traitors. The people who love it are sometimes vocal, and there are organizations to support them – ClevelandPlus, Cool Cleveland and the like. I think, though, that most people are happy to be here, but do not shout it from the rooftops – a happy majority, perhaps. The people who are ambivalent are, I believe, few in number: it is difficult to be ambivalent here. They may be merely content with not rocking the boat. The people who hate it are also few, I believe, but are very vocal, even when they don’t know what they are talking about.
For example, last week I was at a small get-together. One of the girls’ boyfriends was there, and at one point – for no apparent reason – he started on a tirade with a fervor that made him sound like a conspiracy theorist about all of the things he thought were wrong with Cleveland, particularly the rampant “corruption.” He then said that “nothing good ever happens here.”
“It’s exactly that attitude that is the problem,” I said, and went on to point out that if he really felt nothing good ever happened here, he should get out. He quickly admitted that he didn’t mean it, and backtracked, and instead of pressing on and pointing out that if he’s willing to so quickly go back on his statement that we cannot quickly trust anything else he said, I let him retreat. I made a few points about the abundant things that there are to do in Cleveland, and other people pointed out what they thought was good, and together we took an easy victory.
The negative attitude is nothing more than common schoolyard bullying, but with wider-ranging consequences. If we’re to really assert a positive majority, we have to stand up in the face of this negativity. What was heartening to me was that after I started speaking up, others in the room similarly took vocal exception. We just need a lot more of it.