Kids need to exercise. They need recess and lunch breaks. They need to run around and play make-believe without parental interference. They need to make up rules and see imaginary beasts. When one picks up a stick and it’s a sword, or a gun, that’s not a bad thing – it’s good.
Even though it’s competitive, and someone is “it,” kids need to play tag. They need to learn how to lose. They need to learn how to be nice even with competition.
Doritos do not a dinner make. (Somewhere, I just blew someone’s mind.)
Kids shouldn’t be watching four hours of television a day. If you feel that you can’t stop them, put a brick through your television. They made it hundreds of thousands of years without Friends reruns; they can make it until they’re 18. Don’t worry – they will go outside to play, they will run around in circles, they’ll dig for treasure – heck, they might even find a book to read and then sit down and read it.
Kids don’t need detailed or expensive toys. Get them things that will challenge their imagination. Again, sticks are great. Rocks are fascinating. Marbles, balls, blocks, odd pieces of wood, string, etc. can make a summer.
They don’t need junk food. Fruit is great.
Dirt. It doesn’t hurt. In fact, it helps build immune systems. Protecting kids from dirt and bacteria isn’t doing them any favors. Heck – constant application of antibacterial lotions or soaps isn’t doing the parents any favors, either.
More later. I’m just sick and tired of seeing kids in the backs of SUVs staring at monitors in headrests, eating chips and drinking pop and sitting down inside, then parents worrying about diagnoses of ADD, ADHD or obesity.